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| Wednesday, November 21, 2007 |
Realy nice song... d 1st time i heard it, i actually gt touched by it.. n duno y, i jus tear.. on d bus.. d lyrics r simple yet v meaningful... It's call "cai hong".. rainbow..  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KrMBhPhMnF8 |
| (Your Name) ♥ 2:15 PM |
 Found this very meaningful... hw nice if all men can think tis way... EVERY relationship has a cycle. In the beginning, you fell in love with your partner. You anticipated their call, wanted their touch, and liked their idiosyncrasies. Falling in love with your partner wasn't hard. In fact, it was acompletely natural and spontaneous experience. You didn't have to DO anything. That's why it's called "falling" in love... Because it's happening TO YOU. People in love sometimes say, "I was swept of my feet." Think about the imagery of that expression. It implies that you were just standing there; doing nothing, and then something came along and happened TO YOU. Falling in love is easy. It's a passive and spontaneous experience. But after a few years of being together, the euphoria of love fades. It's the natural cycle of EVERY relationship. Slowly but surely, phone calls become a bother (if they come at all), touch is not always welcome (when it happens), and your partner's idiosyncrasies, instead of being cute, drive you nuts. The symptoms of this stage vary with every relationship, but if you think about your relationship, you will notice a dramatic difference between the initial stage when you were in love and a much duller or even angry subsequent stage. At this point, you and/or your partner might start asking, "Did I get attached to the the right person?" And as you and your partner reflect on the euphoria of the love you once had, you may begin to desire that experience with someone else. This is when relatioship breakdown. People blame their partner for their unhappiness and look outside their relationships for fulfilment. Extramarital fulfilment comes in all shapes and sizes. Infidelity is the >most obvious. But sometimes people turn to work,a hobby, a friendship, excessive TV, or abusive substances. But the answer to this dilemma does NOT lie outside your relationship. It lies within it. I'm not saying that you couldn't fall in love with someone else.(it happens) You could. And TEMPORARILY you'd feel better. But you'd be in the same situation a few years later. Because (listen carefully to this): THE KEY TO SUCCEEDING IN A RELATIONSHIP IS NOT FINDING THE RIGHT PERSON; IT'S LEARNING TO LOVE THE PERSON YOU FOUND . SUSTAINING love is not a passive or spontaneous experience. It'll NEVER just happen to you. You can't "find" LASTING love. You have to "make" it day in and day out. That's why we have the expression "the labour of love." Because it takes time, effort, and energy . And most importantly, it takes WISDOM . You have to know WHAT TO DO to make your relationship work. Make no mistake about it. Love is NOT a mystery. There are specific things you can do (with or without your partner) to succeed with your relationship. Just as there are physical laws of the universe (such as gravity), there are also laws for relationships. Just as the right diet and exercise program makes you physically stronger, certain habits in your relationship WILL make your relationship stronger. It's a direct cause and effect. If you know and apply the laws, the results are predictable...you can "make" love. Love in marriage is indeed a "decision"... Not just a feeling . If you drifting away from your relationship. It is indeed a wake up call. Something happened within the relationship. You either fix it or you have to learn to walk away. Do not wait. It wont fix itself.. ...so there u go.. may all find the love of ur life and cherish him/her with wateva u can.. |
| (Your Name) ♥ 1:15 PM |
| Monday, November 19, 2007 |
 This is in chocolate flavor bt i'd ordered for strawberry.. keke.. so cute lo d lip gloss..  tis is in raspberry peach.. I'm so excitedddddd...haha |
| (Your Name) ♥ 4:34 PM |
| Sunday, November 18, 2007 |
Potatoes are bought by the box.. haha.. we r power at gobbling up those potato salad...
stone pounder.. grindin black pepper.. olive oil..all the equipments n ingredients needed r also brought along the production line...haha..
My FAV!!!! Changi V CHICKEN CHOP ipoh hor fan!!!!! since the chalet is jus bside changi V.. our v kind les brought me there to eat.. man... it's fantastic!!!!!!!!! |
| (Your Name) ♥ 1:50 PM |
| Thursday, November 08, 2007 |
woot! long time didn't update on the little one liao... meet my sis and bro-in-law for lunch today at Jack's Place Parkway... Food rox... anyway gotta see the new baby scans today... and boy i muz say the little one really grew so big since the 1st scan when it juz look like a pea... haha... also managed to feel the movements on the little one... amazing!! requested for permission to let u all see the little one when it's out from my sis... but then after she heard of u guys evil intentions of playing the baby she dun want to lend le... haha.... Here are some scans of the little one (14mth and 3days):  the little one's cute little head... can see his/her brain lo... =)  see... so big liao... can see the baby form le... ^^  |
| (Your Name) ♥ 11:01 PM |
 Beautiful couple.. keke  nxt pretty couple.. my 1st time takin cable car!!!!!!!!! was freakinly scare.. hand must hold on to the chair.. n my legs turn abit jelly...  fr the cable car..hp nt gd enuf to capture tt spectacular view...it was realy "breathe-takin"  tt "xmas tree" is act tt red white steel strut structure..d 1 where u can find on hill top.. dey decorated it wif bulbs which gav tis effect..  Nice rite.. Mt faber is all dressed up for the xmas! they even hav SAnta claus there le!    Sian n qin.. N it's "SNOWING" le.. realy v romantic.....  btw.. accoring to ken.. it'll "snow" at 3 intervals.. 10pm,11pm n 12midnite.. each time half hr...  can see the city view..it's realy romanticcc......        We ended the nite wif Gelare...coz it was tue!!! |
| (Your Name) ♥ 8:26 PM |
| Thursday, November 01, 2007 |
 God...please giv me the strength to move on.... |
| (Your Name) ♥ 1:45 PM |
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